NOTE: this was originally intended to be a response to the source
council
regarding the resignation of two members (Miko and Rojon). But the
more I
thought about it, I decided it appropriate to send to the entire list.
Its
just my own personal 2 pyreals :-)
Have a great weekend everyone -- we are off to an afternoon matinee
of X-Men
:-)
Mare
a/k/a Sister C
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Hi All,
Personally, I would like to thank Keith and Phil for their honesty.
I guess
*I* never thought of the council as something people HAD to do.
I guess
naively, I had expected that people would resign if they no longer
desired/didn't have the time/etc. to be a part of the council.
In looking thru my old email I was reminded of the days when Druss'
alliance
had less then 10 members and how easy it was then. The source as
we know it
now has a lot of wonderful people and I am thankful and feel blessed
for
having met them. But along with 100+/- people comes a lot more
personalities and more and more potential for conflicts. I think
there are
people that are tired of conflicts and tired of it taking away from
the
gaming experience and then there are those that just go along with
status
quo and it doesn't seem to bother them one way or another.
I think the time has come to try to find a way to get back to basics
so that
we may ALL enjoy the game again. We need to find a way for people
to enjoy
their gaming experiences and not always be finding frustration.
I am not
sure how this can be accomplished. Maybe it can't be accomplished
soley as
a "source issue" it might be that it has to be
accomplished, in part, on a personal/individual level. I think each
of us
needs to take an *HONEST* look at him/herself and see if/what attitude
adjusting we each may need.
To get back to the pleasant gaming experience, it may mean that:
*people learn to NOT sweat the small stuff
*the source disbands entirely
*the source divides in two as Jamie previously suggested
*the source accepts no new members
*we put a temp stop to the source email list til people can learn
to not be
so negative and/or respect each other's constructive opinions
*individuals take it upon themselves to step back from the situations
that
are frustrating them and take a break
*individuals take a break from the game entirely -- or go to another
server
for a bit til they can find fun instead of frustration in playing
AC/HG
*etc.
Where does this leave the council?
As long as "Druss" is the monarch of this group, I think
I will always vote
to have a council to ensure that people give some thought to who
joins (and
if Druss wants to out vote me on that then that is fine with me
as well).
Although, thankfully, it isn't a common occurence, but there are
not-so-nice
people that can walk the walk and talk the talk in order to try
to wiggle
their way in.
Personally, I think anyone that isn't enjoying it/isn't getting
any
satisfaction out of the council (for whatever reasons) graciously
resign
from the council and the council and the people graciously accept
those
resignations.
Someone suggested this morning that there be one council to govern
the
source on ac (HG, DT, etc.). I don't know if that is a good idea,
but maybe
some thought should be given to that.
As I said before, as long as people are willing to work together,
I am
willing to stay on the council as a general member (*if* still appropriate
given my time spent on DT) but for the reasons I have given previously
I do
not want to be in charge of processing prospective new members on
HG -- and
also seems I am spending so much time on DT I don't think it is
fair to the
prospective new members to be processed by someone they rarely/if
ever see.
And finally, I have set my ac list serve to "digest"
for the time being and
I don't always read thru all the posts. Sooo on the off chance you/someone
on the list needs to get in touch with me directly please send/have
them
send me a private email. Thanks.
Thanks for letting me share my 2 pyreals.
Mare
a/k/a Sister C
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